Going Steady - Peer Pressure (Group Activity)

Scenario 1 (Reg no: 1- 4; 21 - 24)



Mei’s Stress

Two of my best friends, Jes and Rena, have boyfriends. Whenever we meet, they talk about their boyfriends and I always feel so left out. Both of them have been laughing at me and encouraging me to find a boyfriend. I wish I had a boyfriend. However, I know I am young and should not be rushing into a relationship but I am miserable.

Please tell me what to do.
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Scenario 2 (Reg no: 5 - 8; 25 - 28)



Jane’s headache

I’ve been dating John for 6 months now, and I’m really in love with him. We had so much fun on our first few dates: we planned them ahead of time and had a place to go to. But, after we were going together for a while, we started having lots of unplanned time alone. John suggested having sex. I wanted to please him, but I disagree with him on having sex.

John has been pressurising me again. I am so afraid that I’ll give in to him, even though I really don’t want to. My self-control is slipping.

What should I do?

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Scenario 3 (Reg no: 9 - 12; 29 - 32)

Alvin’s interest


I have a group of 4 very close friends. They all have steady girlfriends. I am the only one who is not attached. Recently I noticed a girl at the bus stop near my block. She is very friendly and smiles at me every time we meet. My friends have been challenging me to date her. When I refuse, they laugh at me and call me a coward. I really am not sure whether I like her. I would rather play football than go out with a girl. However, I don’t want to be called a coward.

Should I date her?


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Scenario 4 (Reg no: 13 - 16; 33 - 36)



Peter’s dilemma

I am a 14 year old boy. I have been seeing this girl since I was in Sec 1. My parents are often out of town and they trust me. My girlfriend has begun pushing me to take her to my house and make love to her. This is not like her at all!


She has also started wearing strong perfume and really tight low-cut sexy clothes. I’ve made it clear that I don’t want to have sex before I marry. She however seems determined to make me give in. She says that I’m too immature.

Please tell me what to do.

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Scenario 5 (Reg no: 17 - 20; 37 -40)

May Lee’s curiosity
There is this person that I got to know at the Internet Chat Relay (IRC). We have a lot of fun chatting and corresponding regularly. He said that he really likes me. Recently, he has been asking me to meet up with him. I’ve read so much about girls being cheated by their chat partners. I am afraid. However, I really enjoy chatting with him and am curious to know how he looks.

Please tell me what to do.

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